Psalm 34

I sought the Lord, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame. This poor man called, and the Lord heard him; he saved him out of all his troubles. (Psalm 34:4-6 NIV)

God is always there.  It does take us acknowledging He is there.  The briefest glance His way will bring His presence to your life in a real way.  This recognition is what keeps you spiritually alive.  God wants to be our comforter and at the same time He wants to use you to comfort others as well.  No matter what losses you experience in your life , no one can take this beautiful gift,  the presence of God from you.